Sunday, July 12, 2009

Progress......

Paula is doing GREAT!!!! We saw what we think is the last of her Doctors on June 24th and 25th. We saw Dr. Vendor on the 24th (the Neurosurgeon that told us the night after her accident that "it might take her a year to wake up....or she may never wake up"). When he walked in the room he said "Wow!!!.....Wow, Wow!!!! You look GREAT!!!!......then he turned and looked at Paula......!!!.....no, I'm just kidding....he said that when he saw Paula!!! She is doing wonderful...Praise God!!!!

She's started riding her bicycle again....but we DID buy her a new helment!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

June 17. 2009

Suzanne and Ryan Burnes are GREAT friends of ours. Suzanne wanted to do a "Victory" picture of Paula to show what God has done for and thru her.......thanks Suzanne.

Suzanne's website link is on the left.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Great News....

Paula saw neuro-surgeon on the 26th of March, and he said that her brain looked normal, was in the proper position, and showed no signs of a clot or and bleeding. They took her off of all the "brain" medicine, and they will X-ray her leg where she had a clot very soon to see if they can ease her off of blood thinner......

She's still doing great at home.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Homelife......

It's SO great to have Paula at home!!! She's doing REALLY well. I still have to help her wash her back, wash & dry her hair, and some other minor things.......some things that Paula "needs" for me to help her with.......is a "put on"!!!! She could do "some" of those things.....but I think she's "riding" the situation......but that's O.K.......I enjoy pampering her.....

We've been to several Dr's in the last two weeks, and have appointments EVERY day next week.

She's doing well at home, and we're looking forward to her continued improvement.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Update....

Paula will be getting the feeding tube out in the morning. She's on blood thinner, so they had to regulate that before taking the tube out.

She's been doing VERY well at home.......doing chores, starting to do a little cooking. This morning, I went to church at 9:00 to practice the music, when I got home to pick her up, she had dressed completely, put on her make up, fixed her hair.....about the only thing I have to help her with is washing her back.

She has some lapses of memory, but overall its great.

Paula started working on a bible study by Beth Moore on the book of Ester that our ladies are doing this month.....she's enjoyed that.

God is good!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Joy....

We are OVER joyed for Paula to be at home for good!!!! God has richly blessed us with her speedy recovery.

On the evening of 12/17, Dr. Vendor told us that it may take Paula a year to wake up, or she may never wake up.....

Being at home is a MUCH, MUCH better atmosphere for Paula. She remembers where almost everything is.....or according to her, where they SHOULD be (I've tried to do a lot of "de-cluttering"), so Paula has scolded me a few times because things weren't where they were "suppose" to be.

She's giving herself shots twice a day, she fixed me grilled cheese sandwiches for lunch yesterday, she and I are fixing roast for Leigh, Chuck, Catherine Drew, and Judson to eat with us today after church, she's bathing herself, getting around VERY well......she's just doing GREAT!!!

I've only been to church twice since her accident, and today, we both will be going.

Paula will need to build up her endurance, her overall memory, and she REALLY needs to strengthen her hands.....she still doesn't have feeling in two of her right hand fingers......we will be working on all of those things at home and when she goes to therapy.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Rose.......

My cousin sent this to me today, and it was timely to say the least. It said to send it to 7 people, so I thought it was VERY approriate......and I wanted to share it with you.........


The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know.

I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with as mile that lit up her entire being. She said, 'Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can Igive you a hug?' I laughed and enthusiastically responded, 'Of course you may!' and she gave me a giant squeeze.

'Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?' I asked..She jokingly replied, 'I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids...''No seriously,' I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to betaking on this challenge at her age. 'I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one! 'she told me. After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this' time machine' as she shared her wisdom and experience with me. Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up...

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her note cards on the floor. Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, 'I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know.' As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, ' We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing.

There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it! There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.

Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.' She concluded her speech by courageously singing 'The Rose.' She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the year's end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago. One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.

Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be. These words have been passed along in loving memory of ROSE.
  • REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.
  • We make a Living by what we get. We make a Life by what we give.
  • God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
  • If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

Pass this message to 7 people except you and me. You will receive a miracle tomorrow ( if you don't think so...look out your window when you waken the morning and think about it )

If you choose not, then you refuse to bless someone else.'Good friends are like stars.........You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.'

Thanks for ALL of your prayers and support for the last 72 days.....God is GREAT!!!.....He does miracles........and my......MIRACLE.......IS coming home tomorrow!!!!!